This time of year always brings out the reflective side in me. I start thinking about my many blessings and how sometimes I take them for granted. I think about holidays past, present, and future. I always feel a sense of wonder and contentment and gratitude when Thanksgiving rolls around. While I should (and try to) remember to be thankful year round, I believe a specific time set apart to remind us of our blessings is a good thing, a way to get us back on track.
   So, on this chilly morning, as I lay here in bed, I ponder on the things that I'm really thankful for. And if you'll indulge me, I'll share just a few with you.
   I'm thankful for a warm house on chilly mornings.
   I'm thankful for a vehicle that gets me where I'm going.
   I'm thankful for the chance to go to church today.
   I'm thankful for my little dog, all curled up in his bed. 
   I'm thankful for the gift of music and song.
   I'm thankful that my problems are no worse than what they are.
   I'm thankful for this season of singleness.
   I'm thankful for a family that, though imperfect, loves me.
   I'm thankful that I live in a country where I'm free to worship and live for God.
   I'm thankful that I'm still able to walk, breathe, and do the things I love.
   I'm thankful that my family is still whole, healthy, and safe.
   I'm thankful for the sight of our horses grazing in my parents' field.
   I'm thankful for friends that care about me.
   I'm thankful for a job that is challenging and rewarding.
   I'm thankful for our veterans that have given so much to preserve this land.
   I'm thankful for parents that loved me enough to raise me to know God.
   I'm thankful for a brother and sisters that will forever be my best friends.
   I'm thankful for this peace that passes understanding.
   I'm thankful for a Savior who left His home to give His life for me.
   I'm thankful for a Heavenly Father who loved me enough to give up His own Son.
   I'm thankful for my salvation and that blessed hope of a life beyond this one.
   I'm thankful there is a Heaven where there will be no more death, sorrow, or pain.
   I'm thankful for a Friend that sticks closer than a brother.
   I'm thankful that God has a specific plan for my life.
   I'm thankful that I am His, forever and always....
                                                                                        In His Grip!

 So, what are you thankful for? Feel free to comment and share! God bless you this holiday season!

 Aahhh. Fall!
 Nothing brings me more contentment and appreciation than this season. Watching the leaves turn vibrant colors. Decorating my house with pumpkins and cornstalks. Wearing my cozy hoodies and boots. Going to bonfires and hayrides. Watching my sisters’ goat get positively plump with their thickening coats. And baking! I go crazy for baking fall-inspired flavors, such as pumpkin, apple, caramel, etc. etc!
 It may sound corny, but my family seems to come alive this time of year. We tend to participate in more outdoor activities, such as impromptu games of volleyball and romps with the dogs, rather than in spring or summer. To me, it’s a wonderful time of year, full of beauty and promise.
 Sadly, not everyone feels this way. I have known people personally who hate this season. I can understand their reasoning: chillier temperatures, darker evenings, and the inevitable winter that’s right around the corner.
 However, I choose to look at the fall as one last gift of beauty before the cold days of winter descend. And, I refuse to allow myself to miss what opportunities this season may hold for me. Maybe a framed snapshot of my parent’s fields, awash with color. Or a walk down the leaf-strewn driveway with my sister. I don’t want to spend this whole season with my head down, in the mullygrubs, just because it’s not what I would prefer for this time.
 I’m trying to take on that attitude about life, as well. When I’m in a possibly less-than-ideal season, I don’t want to miss out on what it has to offer because I’m wishing for it to end, or dreading what’s to come. I choose to look at this time of my life as a season of beauty and opportunity; it’s a chance to grow in contentment and appreciation for what is front of me right now. Whatever it may be.
 I know that I have to have those seasons of fall and even winter, so that I may fully enjoy the seasons of spring and summer. I would never be able to witness the trees’ new blossoms if they never shed their former glory. The trickling spring beds would soon dry up if not for the fall rains and winter snows. The fields would never produce their bounty of wheat, corn, or flowers if they did not have those seasons of rest that autumn brings. I can’t have one without the other. And if I had nothing but spring rains and flowers, it's inevitable that I would soon grow weary of those. Maybe it’s those “undesirable” seasons that teach me to appreciate the others. They all work together to create this wonderful, beautiful life that I’m a part of.
 So, this fall, I challenge you to look at this season of your life differently. Whether it’s this fall season, or a time of singleness, or a challenging job situation. Choose to have an optimistic view. Look for the beauty in it. Learn from it. Grow with it. Make memories. And always find contentment in being…
                                                                                    In His Grip!
                                                                                    Crystal

"To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." Ecclesiastes 3:1

“Autumn is a second spring when every leaf is a flower.”
― Albert Camus

“You expected to be sad in the fall. Part of you died each year when the leaves fell from the trees and their branches were bare against the wind and the cold, wintery light. But you knew there would always be the spring, as you knew the river would flow again after it was frozen."― Ernest Hemingway, A Moveable Feast       

“Fall has always been my favorite season. The time when everything bursts with its last beauty, as if nature had been saving up all year for the grand finale.”
― Lauren DeStefano, Wither

   Those who know me well know one thing: I'm a HUGE Southern Gospel fan! Especially groups like The Booth Brothers, Greater Vision, Legacy Five, Tribute, the Collingsworth Family, the Talleys--well, I could go on (and on!), but I'll spare you the long list! In honor of the National Quartet Convention gearing up this week, I though I'd highlight this wonderful genre.
   One of my all-time favorite hobbies is going to Southern Gospel concerts. I know what you're thinking: "You like to sit and listen to a bunch of people sing church songs for 2 hours? What fun." But it's true. I've attended dozens of concerts, and don't see a stopping point yet. In fact, I've made it a personal goal of mine to see as many groups as I can, while I can! If someone were to ask me why, I'd have to give several reasons.
   For one, I am super impressed by talent. And I'm not talking about someone who's "pretty good", but has real, undeniable, mind-blowing, God-given talent. And simply put, you won't find more talented people than the ones I find here. In my opinion, many of these men and women could sing circles around a lot of the top-earning music-makers today. (Check out Lauren Talley singing "Lord, I Believe" and see what I mean!) And I've yet to hear harmony that sounds any sweeter. (Don't believe me? You've never heard the Booth Brothers do "In Christ Alone" have you?) And the music! Such gifted musicians! (Such as the late great Anthony Burger whose parents were told he would never be able to use his hands after a serious burn when he was a toddler!) 
   While on the subject of talent, I'd be remiss if I didn't address the songwriters. Songwriters like Bill and Gloria Gaither are renowned the world over for songs like "Because He Lives" and "He Touched Me." And Rodney Griffin, who has penned scores of award-winning songs, has been voted Singing News favorite songwriter for sixteen consecutive years! And songs such as Mark Lowry's "Mary, Did You Know?" have become huge hits for popular artists in rock, country, and pop as well as gospel.
    So many songs, all so different in style, lyrics, and melody. And I find that for every situation that I may be facing, there is almost always a song to go with it. Like when I am especially discouraged, I find comfort in the Collingsworth Family's song "It Matters to the Master," or the Booth Brothers' "Every Cry is Heard." When I find myself reflecting back on all God has brought me through, I can sing along with Brian Free and Assurance when they sing "Say Amen." I am reminded of what I should be doing as a Christian by the Collingsworths' call to "Give a Little Love and Kindness" or Lauren Talley's "Go the Extra Mile." And if I've recently lost someone dear to me, I am comforted by Legacy Five's "Hello After Goodbye" or the Perry's "Celebrate Me Home." And when I get to thinking about Heaven, I love to hear Tribute sing "Homecoming Day." "The One I'm Dying For" (the Isaacs) remind me of Jesus' sacrificial love.
   Yes, the songs-the message and the melody- certainly draw me to Southern Gospel music.  
   But I find that I genuinely like the people as well. These men and women are endearing and personable and entertaining. Each one brings something differing to the table: Josh Singletary's antics and bow ties; Lauren Talley's passion and sunny smile; Gerald Wolfe's experience and dedication. Yes, I know that while on stage and in public they are presenting their best front. (Who wouldn't?) But I've personally met many of the ones I've talked about. And while I don't pretend to be God and know the true state of anyone's heart, I feel that I'm a pretty good judge of character, and in my experience, these people are real. I've heard their testimonies, seen their tears, and witnessed their worship of their Savior. I've watched them stop to talk with their fans. (I was touched one evening watching Michael Booth crouching on one knee to share an unhurried conversation with a gentleman bound to a wheelchair.) I've seen them work their product tables themselves so they can meet their listeners. I have only ever found them to be gracious and friendly and genuine. They sacrifice time with their families to share the gospel and encourage God's people.
   Now, lest anyone reading this feels that I'm putting these people on a pedestal, let me assure you that I'm not. I know that they're all human, with their own faults, wrinkles, and weaknesses. I can even go so far as to say that I don't agree with everything I've seen or heard from them. But that doesn't change how I feel about them. We're all different, with different perspectives, convictions, and opinions. And that's okay with me. We are all, imperfect though we may be, part of the family of God.
   But I guess one of the main reasons I am such a follower of Southern Gospel is what it does for me personally. The songs, the people, the message they share night after night- they all work together to truly bless me. I am challenged, I am encouraged, I am blessed when I get to spend an evening with any one of these groups, and yes, I am entertained as well. And for a single person without a family to devote my time, energy, and heart to, that means a lot. And no, I'm not saying that to make you feel sorry for me. (Because I don't feel sorry for me!) But it's the truth. And I find that this music, whether in live concert or by cds, lifts me up. It gives me an outlet, and reminds me that there's more to life than what I currently have or don't have. Such as God's grace, His unending love for me, the sacrifice on the cross Jesus made for my salvation. And when current events start to make me feel small, insignificant, and fearful, it reminds me that there is still an army of Christians standing up for Jesus, proclaiming the gospel of Jesus in the best way they know how: in song.
   To be honest, I could give another dozen reasons why I love it all, but I've rambled on long enough. If you've never experienced a night of this kind of music, I hope that something I said would compel you to give it a shot. Or maybe you're in a low point in your life and in need of some kind of assurance that God has not forgotten you. I would encourage you to try any of these songs or groups I've mentioned. It may not be the most "popular" (by the world's standards) brand of music, but I promise it will be one of the most meaningful.
   So, from a single to all those Southern Gospel groups out there, I want to say, "Thank You." Thank you for your long nights, endless travel, physical weariness, and separation from family. Thank you for your songs, your smiles and your stories. And thank you for blessing me, when I so desperately needed it, with your example, your gift, your heart, and your message. I can't tell you what it all really means to me.
   As they all prepare for their biggest week of the year, I pray for safe travels and that they receive even just a little of what they bring to me and so many others. And I hope that they have fun!
   I've not, as of yet, been fortunate enough to attend a National Quartet Convention (it's on my bucket list, though!), but my sisters and I are planning on watching it through live streaming. And I have to say, it may not be the same as being there in person, but I am still looking forward to it! A whole week of my favorite groups and artists, a whole week of music! 
   So, until next time, may all of us-singles, gospel artists, fans, etc.-remember that we are always (in the words of another great gospel artist, Roger Bennett)...
                                                                                                 In His Grip!
                                                                                                 Crystal

 I know it's been a while since I've posted, but in case you haven't noticed, it's my birthday! So I thought I would celebrate.
 In years past, I haven't always felt so inclined to celebrate. I always felt like something was missing. However, I've since learned that what I was missing was not so much outward as inward. I spent so much time wishing for what I didn't have, that I didn't appreciate the gifts I already had.
 I am thankful for the 35 years God has given me. I'm thankful that I am still able to celebrate my birthday with my family, and that I still have the health to enjoy it. I'm thankful for the greatest gift anyone could ever receive, and that's the gift of my salvation, bought and paid for by my Savior. I'm thankful that, by His grace, I now am able to accept and appreciate my life as it is right now.
 And I'm thankful for this birthday! I got to see two of my favorite groups (Tribute quartet and the Talleys) last night and spent time with my family today. 
 I didn't get any expensive gifts, just a few thoughtful ones. I didn't go out to eat at a fancy restaurant, but stayed home for tacos. I didn't have a party with friends, but spent an evening with some of my favorite singers and a few dozen strangers.  
 And that was all right with me.
 I don't need a lot. I have my family. I have my health. I have a future to look forward to. I've had 35 years of love, laughter, and life. And I have my Jesus. 
 What better gift could I possibly ask for?

 

    And by "adventures," I'm not exactly talking about rock climbing or sky-diving. I'm not planning a vacation to an exotic location any time soon, and I don't see any drag racing in my near future, either. Not everyone can manage those kinds of adventures-single or married!
    Not all  adventures have to be death-defying, expensive, or time-consuming. They don't  even have to always take you out of the house. They can be small, every day  moments of new experiences, joy, growth, pleasure, and maybe sometimes even  sorrow. 
    Lately, I've discovered my life is full of such moments, whether they be in reading a new book, starting my summer vacation, hearing a  song by my favorite group, or writing a blog! And I'm loving every minute of it!
    For years, I felt that I was in a "waiting period." I couldn't really start experiencing all that life and God had to offer-- the way so many of my friends and family  seemed to be experiencing-- until I was married, or at least in a serious relationship. I couldn't embrace new changes, soar to new heights, or accept new challenges, all for fear I would mess things up for any future relationships. Thus, I was stuck in a rut, unable to truly experience everything within my reach, because I was waiting for...someone to have those experiences with.
    It finally hit me. (Sometimes it takes a while for me to get something.) What was I waiting for? God never intended that I find a mate for me to start truly living and enjoying the blessings and adventures He has for me. My new life, rich with purpose and fulfillment, started the day I accepted the Lord Jesus into my life. So why was I limiting myself to finding happiness with a partner? I had already found the greatest Partner I could ever hope to find.
    When I realized that liberating truth, I was able to truly see the challenges, opportunities, and experiences in my life as the adventures they really were. I experienced more joy in these moments-- big and small-- than I ever had before. And I can look back with satisfaction and contentment, knowing that I have not been wasting my time for my adventures to really begin.
   Since then, I have been able to experience many kids of adventures that filled me with a sense of joy, contentment, and fulfillment.
​   Recently, my sister and I both started a new adventure by opening up a boutique. Believe me, it was not easy and we've had our hitches. We could almost hear the scoffers and doubters. (Why would they do something like that? I just don't see it lasting. And so forth.) But we didn't care. Why NOT do it now? And who knows, maybe it won't last. But at least we won't look back in years to come and wonder what would've happened. But in the meantime, we're having a blast playing with clothes and meeting people.
​   And I'm not stopping there. I recently discovered a new hobby: backyard farming! I've really developed a taste for growing things. I don't have a lot of space where I'm living, so I'm learning how to make the best of what I've got and improvise. I love to make lists, so I've got my 5 year plan laid out. It may not seem like much to some people, but I'm enjoying myself.
   Some may read this and think to themselves, "Adventures? Seriously?" And that's okay. My definition of adventure may be different from yours. But I encourage everyone reading this post to go out and look for your own adventure, whether it be getting a new pet, visiting a new restaurant, getting reacquainted with an old friend, or witnessing to someone of the Lord's goodness. There's nothing more exciting than waking up each day and wondering what's in store for the future!
    God's richest blessings on your future adventures!